I am a Scorpio and he is a Pics es. Any one have any Tarot cards?
We have been married for ten years. He is also a drunk which I am not and seems to be totaly selfcentered. Should I divouce him now? He has been ill for the entire ten years of out marrage and now that I am ill and need some help, which he can't provide me I want to move back to my home town to be near family and he really does not. Its just from a practical point of view. There is a lot of money involved. I would like to get custody over him legally. Its not just about the money, its also that he has been in countless drunk driving accident and busted for it 4 times. I don't even drink. I just want to live out my life in a decent way. Please help me. I do love him but sometimes wonder why.
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- Well, if you have to ask that kind of question, the sign isn't good. Pisces lose themselves in their own world. You as a scorpio have more of a grip on things. Even though you might get down sometimes, or have to meditate on something that you don't even realize is bothering you...you can still handle these emotions. If you have a child together, think of this...What happens if he's drunk driving with your child? Honestly, the two factors you explained are very BIG issues. Alchoholism...sad. It's a disease that he's gonna need help with. And one other thing, if you health is poor already and your emotions are much better, b/c of drama he brings, you will not get better. You need to be emotionally strong when your body can't or isn't. THis may be a hard step, but in the end, you gotta take care of you and yours. I'm really sorry you are sick, but...faith and commitment (to a better life) will get you back on track! Don't let him bring you down his road....sometimes you really gotta do what you gotta do.
- One word, councelling. Get lots of it.
- Well I'm a male pisces so I think I can try and answer this one... Our sign seems to present a "lost" person who never knows any kind of direction...how false it is. I never drink or smoke or anything like that when my sign says I should. I do not know if I'm a regular pisces but I do know this. Your husband is probably disillusioned a bit. If I were him, I'd probably have lost a grip on what's important. If I was him, I would need my wife to tell me directly (but in a nice and gentle way) that I am pushing her away from me and that something needs to change. Bring up memories when you two fell in love and remind him of the positive qualities you found in him when things were good. Don't chastise him or remind him of the bad things he's done or is doing...simply tell him that you want the betters things out of him you saw earlier in your marriage. Couples will always face tough challenges, but if you two can work through this one, it'll make your marriage that much stronger. I'd suggest you wait it out a little longer and see if he can change his problems. If he can't, then you're probably better off living the life you want. As a pisces, if you tell him that he needs to stop then he might but only temporarily just to keep you. If you make him feel guilty about it by talking about the good memories you use to have when he wasn't drinking, like our sign says we are, we can be very sympathetic and he might be more apt to change his ways.
- Do you want tarot cards? I have a set that I would like to get rid of, I havent used them in YEARS. I will mail them to you.
- Email me for a tarot reading! Blessings!!!
- hope you not attracted to losers because at the end they Will bring you down
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