Mystical Angels - Please help me make an important decision.?

Please help me make an important decision.?

Hi i'm 18,and i really like this girl from my school and tonight i was planning on telling her how i feel, i don't know how she feels back, i don't know her very well. But i really don't know whether or not to do it. both my horoscopes (one on internet, one in paper) said things which seemed to warn me against it, but on the other hand i seem to be getting signs telling me to. I just want to get it over with even though its a risk, i'm sick of being depressed about it, and if it doesn't work out at least its back to normal, but i really want it to work out. Another problem is i don't know exactly what i'm going to say to her, i'll just start with any topic, but how do i change the subject to how i feel about her, Please help here, i've always been too shy to do anything like this before, Should i try or not, and what should i say, any other advice will help (i'm doing it on MSN because i won't see her in person until next week, and i don't get a chance to speak to her much

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only you can decide this question let the force be with you my son
Strive for what you think you can do! YOU GOT SUPPORT FROM ME
Forget the horoscopes and all that other nonsense and just follow what your heart tells you to do.
GO for it!
if you don't know her very well then you should wait and then try to tell her. but that is your choice. GOOD LUCK>>
Don't be too forward...just tell her that your kind of nervous about asking her but you would like to ask her to go out to get to know each other better. Forget the shyness turn it to sweet. Be sweet to her and forget your horoscopes they don't mean much.
You need to tell her. u are only hurting urself by not telling her. she may feel the same way back but she is to shy to tell u. dont b depressed b happy u found someone like this.
If telling her your 'feelings' is too tough, ask her out to a movie or to dinner. If she does like you she will accept your invitation. If not, she will decline and this way you don't feel like you exposed part of you besides asking for a date. Those type of feeling should be done face to face, that way you can see the smile on her face!
Just tell her you like her and want to go out sometime. Do it quick so you don't chicken out. If she isn't into you atleast you won't see her for a few days. Besides, you won't be any worse off than you were before. Actually, you'll be better for having done something ballsy. Be a risk taker!!! Good Luck!
Ask her out to the cinema or something that you would both enjoy and if she says yes reply with( its a date then)you will soon find out Wat shes thinking with her next reply lol hope this helps
Wow! Do what you feel is right in your heart and stay true to yourself. Whatever you do, DON'T leave "important decisions" (as you say) to people on Y!A. I'm sure there are some people who would love to help you, but you have to figure this out on your own. Follow your heart and listen to your head! Good luck!!!
ok, here is what you do. Give it a shot. If she doesn't like you, who cares. There is lots of fish in the sea. It may take time but if she doesn't like you then like i said. you may start off with something she likes and then jump to something you like (other than her) and then would be the time to tell her something else you like is her. they softly ask her to go to the movies or to dinner. or you can just ley her pick. I hopes this helps!!!
LISTEN TO THE SIGNS, listen to the signs, listen to the signs. THIS IS NOT YOUR TIME.....LISTEN TO THE SIGNS......... ((((((NO REALLY IT IS MORE MEANING FULL IF YOU TELL HER NEXT WEEK. PLAN SOME KIND OF NIGHT OUT.))))) BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND HER. SHE WOULD BE MORE TOUCHED TO KNOW IN PERSON. BECAUSE WHAT IF SHE FREAKS OUT IN THAT WEEK BEFORE SHE CAN SEE YOU. JUST WAIT.... BYE SOME FLOWERS PUT THEM JON HER CAR. BE SPONTANEOUS. DO NOT TELL HER ON THE COMPUTER. YOU MIGHT AS WELL JUST START KISSING YOUR COMPUTER.........((GOOD LUCK))....
start saying that she has something special and you can't stop thinking about her. Be a gentleman and ask her to have dinner with you sometime. And then bring her something cute like a neckless or something that said I Like you. Then take it from there. Be nice and well mannered. She will like that. Good Luck sweety.
look I had the same problem a while back. I just used any topic both of us would be interested in and some how it just floated over to how I felt about her. Done listen to the horoscopes. Decide what u want to do and then go for it no matter what the outcome is just remember u got it off your back. It worked for me and we are still dateing even as I am writing this I am still with her. Trust me if its menu to be then the Convo will eventually float to how u feel about her. Even if its not the first time u talk to her maybe it will be the second time who knows third times a charm. Good luck let me know how it turns out
STOP ... take deep breath.. let the oxigent blow in ... you said you are getting depress over a girl you don't know very well..you need to calm down depression is a result of acumulated pressure ..pressure that can be brought by extream excitement or feeling of emotions ... and one of the motives for these emotions are the constant think over and over about this girl ... obviously another motive is that the girl is attrative...This is a crucial moment where you have to learn to CONTROL your feelings and while doing so get to know "the girl of your dreams" or what have you. Don't put your foot in your mouth yet and get to know her.. Once you make the first step of expressing your feelings two things will happend... One rejection *which can be a good thing if dealt with currectly* or two she accepts and expresses her feelings...