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How can I stop my gay boyfriend to argue with me all the time?

I have been in a relationship with my boi for 6 months, we live together and I carry most of the expenses, which is fine for now. He claims he loves me and I can feel that from him but he is absolutely obsessed about it. He is very insecure about myself in regards to cheating, for which there are absolutely no grounds. I have never cheated on him but he keeps on asking third parties about 'men' behavior and it is litterally killing our relationship. After talking to him and trying to clear things up, giving ourselves a bit of peace of mind, there is always something to argue about. He has tried to walk away from me 5 times with no good results. I just don't pay attention to what he is doing and remind him that he is free to do whatever he wants. In the past week, he 'consulted' 3 different people, including my best friend and a fortune teller........this is nuts.....and honestly I don't know what to do to stop him from not trusting me. I would appreciate any comments .

Public Comments

1. wth your boyfriend is such a fag.
2. OK, he is a free loader and a nut job. I don't think you really need this headache. Go find another. but dump him first.
3. He needs to see a counselor, seriously. Group therapy might be good for him. He has deep-seated insecurities that are taking over his life. This is not a "maybe" option, but absolutely necessary for the emotional health of your relationship and of both of you individually. If he keeps up with the paranoid obsessions, it will truly destroy your relationship. BTW, I suspect the reason he has tried to walk away five times is that he is trying to manipulate you into declaring your love for him. For some reason (upbringing maybe) he just doesn't think you or anyone else loves him, and desperately tries to force you prove your love by threatening to leave. He hopes that you will then embrace him, kiss him, make love with him, get him gifts, etc., which will make him feel secure and good about himself -- until that wears off and he is right back where he started. Hmmm...why did you not drop him after he tried to walk away five times? I'm curious. Hope it works out, man.
4. I'm not seeing where there's 'any' relationship...sorry. If I were you, I'd move on...and, quick...he isn't ready for any kind of relationship until he gets over himself and his juvenile 'manipulation' tactics...and permits two people to be in a committed relationship...
5. Apart from love, a relationship also comes with the word "Trust". Apparently he doesn't trust you and therefore his love for you is also in question. Sit him down and seriously set the record straight on what all the misconceptions he had on you. Otherwise, the relationship is not worth it and it is about time you move on.
6. Your boyfriend is a piece of shit. dump him . his a big boy he'll understand.
7. You can dump Ranny, will be good for both of you, don't ask who iam. you know me
8. dump him