Mystical Angels - How can the X still piss me off so much !!!!?

How can the X still piss me off so much !!!!?

We just got done chatting online ( because i'm working in Australia) and we are recently broken up. She tells me today that her "friend" from high school ( whom she has been hanging out with alot recently) asked her if she wanted to start dating. I should be a fortune teller because it's amazing that I can see the future. I told her it was just a matter of time before he made his move. I thought we were going to try and work things out and make it past this " bump in the rode". So now I hear that he's asked her to date him, it just pisses me right off !! Of course there is nothing I can do about it, seeing how i'm way the F-ck over here. Everyone has there short comings but I knew this was going to happen. Being a guy you just know how other guys are going " SWOOP IN FOR THE KILL", just irratates the piss out of me. So since I can't " Burn the motherf-cker down" I guess I should take it like a man. Any other suggestions ???

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honestly, you're quite limited as to what you can do because of the distance. I would prob start to realistically look at the situation you're in and think about whether it can or even should be salvaged. Put yourself first for a little while and think about what would be good for you. I think that will help you get over the breakup a little....also, if she does agree to start dating him...tells u something about her and her feelings too. Best of luck figuring things out. :)
You wrote "we are recently broken up" and I think you are regretting it. Tell her the truth about how you feel and if you broke up due to something you did confess it completely, answer all her questions and ask for her forgiveness. Don't say you will never do it again because you will probably turn that into a lie. If that doesn't work for you, never call her again.
You're in Australia. Has she taken a vow of chastity? Go home if it's a problem.
you actually knew that the other guy was gonna ask her out? oh.. interesting. well.. as you know, long distant relationships are hard to maintain. and since you're working, you'll always be busy or something like that. maybe that's why she found someone else. don't blame yourself or feel low that she chose some other guy over you. for all you know, she's just not good enough for you. so, just chill. there are so many fishes in the sea! go fishing! look out for someone else who you can go out with. when she can find someone else, so can you! take it like a man!
Have you thought of moving back? Seems to me she's decided Australia is too far away to keep a relationship going and she isn't intending to wait around. She's moved on, probably you should do the same. You sound like you still have feelings for her, give yourself time to get over her and start looking for someone new. I know easier said than done, but you already know you have no choice. Sometimes love sucks.
Exes can continue to piss you off well after the break up. Chances are, you are more hurt and jealous than angry. You need to take a step back and figure out what you really feel. It all depends on when you broke up, why you broke up, and if you really want to work things out, or if you just don't like her being with someone else. Usually a "bump in the road" doesn't require a break up, so take that into consideration as well.
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