Thank you for the question “can you tell me anything regarding the future of me and robs relationship? after the baby is born that is” and for the request. Because of your birth date, I have chosen to use the “knight of cups” from the Victorian Romantic Tarot by Karen Mahony and Alex Ukolov to represent you as I meditate upon your request. I pull the “3 of swords” from “Fenestra Tarot” by Chatriya and have attached a scanned image of the cards. Please feel free to look at these pictures (particularly the three of swords) and notice for yourself what the cards say to you. What do the swords represent for you? How about the heart and the gray squiggly lines? Colors? I'll share my impressions now. On the three of swords, I see a beautiful red and orange heart being pierced by three swords. A grey swirl surrounds the heart, and on the background, a red and yellow striped pattern runs from top to bottom. On the bottom half of the card, the pattern is blue and yellow. I notice the colors – oranges and reds represent passions, anger, jealousy, as well as happiness and pleasure. The blues can represent just that, having “the blues,” and they can represent calmness as well When I look at this card, I feel pain and a bit of sorrow. Sometimes when I feel pain, it's difficult for me to think straight, which is what the swords represent, clarity of thought. It's as though there are many choices to make and too much to bear. Sometimes three of swords represent third parties, who penetrate this heart. The clouds also represent unclear vision. There can be heartache, jealousy or hurtful feelings. . This card asks that you find a balance between what your mind wants and what your heart wants. Listen to your heart as well as your mind. It also implies “acceptance of sorrow with the ability to move beyond it and even learn from it.” This experience can also result in deep bonds. If your heart feels like crying, let it! Mary Greer, in her book "21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card," suggests having a conversation with each of the different aspects of the card, with the idea that each aspect represents part of yourself or a relation to yourself. This works with dreams as well. I have a practice where I write a question with my dominant hand, and with my other hand, I write a response. It might help to simply ask the different aspects of the card what they represent and what they are trying to tell you. Here's a simple example which I did with the 3 of swords. Perhaps you will relate. Feel free to make up your own conversation as well: Q: “Heart, what message do you have for Natasha:” A: “Hi Natasha, I am very sorry. Right now I'm in pain, so it's difficult for me to think straight. Please keep me in mind when making choices. I get hurt very easily and am quite sensitive.” Q: “Swords, what is in the best interest for Natasha to know?” A: “There are too many choices. Slow down.” That was just a basic example as to how you can work with the card for yourself. The traditional meaning for this card is: “Removal, departure, separation, division, quarrel, loss, tears, and unrequited love.” I hope this reading provided you with some insight in regards to your question. I'd love to hear back from you with your thoughts. my origonal question was about the paternity of my baby. she said she couldnt answer it. and also i gave them a wrong birth date im only 17 but i put on there that i was 18 so i could get the reading... do you think this could be accurate? she pretty much said that my boyfriend will leave me or something well the website had me fill something out and it required me to be 18. i didnt mean to lie to her.