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How can I tell my friend (girl) that she needs to wax the mustache fuzz off of her lip if she wants a guy?

hi. I'm a guy, and I've known my friend who is a girl for about a year and a half. She has always had this gross light haired fuzzy mustache along her upper lip. She looks really pretty when she does her hair hair and makeup and stuff, but shes kinda lazy sometimes and will just roll out of bed and go to class...whatever. She's also had very little experience with men. And she really likes this guy and they have cuddled before and shared a bed and i guess they kissed a little. BUT, he was drunk. and this one time we were talking online on her screen name together to him, we were all drinking and somehow "body shots" came up and he said "i'll take a body shot off of (my friend's roommate) any day!" So, you know setback. My (and my boyfriend's) theory is she needs to wax that nasty fuzz off of her upper lip. I can't find a way to lightly tell her either. Even when we both are drunk, which is when I can usually tell people to do something like that. She went to a fortune teller today and I wish i went because I would have asked the fortune teller to tell her to do that and act like its part of her reading... but that opportunity is gone now. HOW would you tell your friend this in a constructive way?

Public Comments

1. It's just a little fuz. who cares?
2. Send her an anonymous note?
3. Just tell her. Geez, its not that important or complicated, if you're old enough to drink you should be old enough to grow a pair and ask your friend if she ever considered waxing her lip when she does her eyebrows.
4. give her a free facial day at the spa :] of coarse you pay, not her.
5. lmao. id go with telling her when your drunk, then maybe shell shave it off by the time your sober and you could apologize and say that you were drunk, but tell her that she should keep the look.
6. Don't tell her you'll only hurt her feelings and it doesn't really concern you like it's not your problem. I know she's your friend but I'm sure she knows it's there and just isn't doing anything about it. Or just pretend you think you have a mustache and ask her what she thinks you should do... Hope this helps:)
7. Well, as a guy you shouldn't tell her. It is easier if her friend were to tell her that she needs to get rid of it. So maybe you should tell your friends friend ( who is a girl ) that maybe your freinds freind needs to get rid of it. Dont tell your Hairy friends friend that you told her to say that. You just want to tell her to hint at it.
8. Do it as a dare, offer to pay then when she does it go "WHOA! You look so pretty!" Ha, noo. Just ask her if she's every considered waxing or using a home hair removal cream on her upper lip, just tell her that she could really benefit from it as that sort of thing can transform someones face and confidence. Maybe if you offer to do some kind of treatment at the same time she'll feel more inclined and encouraged? It's hard to do, but it shows you care about her and all...Good luck.
9. Tell her nicely before somebody else tells her and hurts her feelings. Say, "Guys think you're really pretty, but we should get that fuzz on your lip taken care of. How about this Saturday?" Notice, say "we" so you're in it together with her, and you're setting a date for getting it done so she can't wiggle out of it. Then take her to get it done.
10. Duuude don't beat around the bush! alot of girls don't wax it though because of the pain but there's this thing that's painless and if that's the case tell her about it, it's called smooooth away its these little pads that you just rub on yourself and the hair goes away, i use it hahah just tell her straight up and be nice about it but tell her the truth, i would apperciate it SO much if a friend told me something like that because i love honest opinions haha
11. she's a college girl and she doesn't understand lip fuzz is gross as hell??? Just tell her as a GF that hey girl you need to clean up your act, ya know??