Mystical Angels - i dont know what to do =[?

i dont know what to do =[?

a guy in my class that i've fallen for in my class likes me, i mean really likes me, he told me that he is into me and gave me compliments etc, he's really cute but insucure (i think that's the best word for it), anyway, we went for a walk after class one day and we got into a deep convo and kissed..(my first..mind you im 18 lol shameful) he knows its my first, he didnt believe me cos he said he'd thought i'd have been around..(i dunno y he said that but i somewhat take it as a compliment lol) he asked me out and i said yes.. the next day he called it off (confusing) saying he's not ready for all that yet. i was kind of broken after that day, because for the few hours in a long time i was extra happy but then he called it off.. anyway i want to ask him out but im a coward when it comes to that sort of thing because although i have confidence, im not experienced =[ everyone (including a fortune teller) says i wont get what i want until i ask for it..even a decision machine lol..thats how sad i can get lol (sorry).. i just need help on how to meet him, when to tell him and how to tell him.. the last time (thursday) i told him i waned to talk to him via email, he ran outta class like 15 mins before the class ended.. i really need to get this guy help pwease??!! thanks x

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Haha, good ol' relationship drama. First off, best wishes to you. Now, try to find out why he called off. If he has interest else where that he is chasing after I would say it's in your best interest to let him go. You never want to be the second choice, you'll end up getting hurt. Ask around and try to find out his intention from some people who know him well, make sure he wasn't just trying to be your first kiss, some guys get off on being a girl's first anything. Whatever, just ask around. If you really think you just need to be the move maker then just strike up open conversation with him and bring it up. Once you get on the subject of dating and relationships tell him how you feel and ask him if you two could be something more than friends, or go steady, or whatever terminology. Offer to cook him dinner or something. Best wishes, hope all works out for you.
dont use emails i mean, i know its scary, but you gotta fight for this guy! hes the coward, not you lol next time you see him, run up and catch up to him and ask him why hes avoiding you then ask if you can go get coffee or something start small movies might be a bit much cuz he seems like hes... well, nervous good luck :]
You cannot 'get a guy'. Don't pressure him. He might be the first but he is not the last. Try to be calm about him. If you get to have a conversation with him eventually, tell him you would like to know what he feels and if there is anything you can do. Be kind and patient-that's the best solution. If somebody is not ready, it means they need time. I am sure you can give him some :). Good luck!
he sounds shy! maybe just step back for a while and let him come to you? good luck girlie! :)
hes basicly scared of having to teach u everything becuz u are unexperienced and is maybe not ready for all the work that would have to put into a reltionship.... not saying its a bad thing u havnt had a kiss until u were 18 lol but maybe u should ask him what he is looking for and vice versa u should tell him what u want or are looking for if u are looking and u should go from there
id email him and be like, what happened whyd you cancel and then run outta class early, i mean something going on
I guess don't pressure him and give him time. Good Luck
dat guy is really not interested in you..dnt give so much of attention to him be cool..u il get sum1 bettr
hmm maybe he's shy. talk to him again but don't get clingy but just let him know you do have a crush on him and you'd like to just date casually just to get to know each other, nothing serious. if it don't work out, you remain friends of course. If that doesn't work forget him, he's not mature enough yet for girls. I'm 28 years old, dated lots of girls and counting!
there might be rumors thate said that but i think he got scared and is waiting for you and he prob ran out of class bc he was afraid you wanted to be "just friends"
Welcome to the Adult world of "games and dishonesty". He is not interested in having a meaningful relationship. You were chosen for his convenience: to boost his ego. You bit the hook and he can pull the line as he wishes. Take the hook out of your mouth and get on with school, look for someone worthwhile of your time, love and attention. Make yourself pretty every day and simply ignore him. When he comes knocking at your door again - tell him to F*** O**.