Mystical Angels

Can I get a clarification/opinions on the possible meaning of these 2 tarot picks ?

What you are ( me ) doing to hurt the relationship : Ace of cups What the other's doing to hurt the relationship : Ace of wands Thats not too obscure ? Strength of both : Judgement. Weakness of both : 8 of wands

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1. What are you doing to hurt a relationship: being in love with love-too clingly- putting too much love into the relationship too soon. What's the other's doing to hurt the relationship: intellectualizing the relationship- treating the relationship as a project or object instead of an emotional connection
2. My quick analysis would be that you are experiencing new emotion and the other is experiencing new spirituality; Both cards indicate a new relationship. In the context of hurting the relationship I would say you are being emotionally immature and the other is not focused on you. My book says: "Ace of Wands: New Beginnings are now possible. This is a good time to start a new cycle of life." "Ace of cups: New beginnins in your life will fill you with joy and contentment, There is the possibility of a new love." Ok. so this must be a new relationship for both of you?
3. I am a TAROT Reader. So here I am very pleased to come to your help. The first think that strikes me is how the Questions are phrased and constructed. "How you or the other is going to hurt the relationship " ? Is that a Question ? No, it is a negative. Two negatives. And Cards are tools that relate to the Esoteric, and what is called the "Mysteries". Arcana is another word for "Mysterious". It is a kind of Astral or Ethereal World that do not respond to negatives. So here is my Answer. ACE OF CUPS : you are in love ! You see it as a blessing. Something enchanting. The Ace of Cups is over flowing with the joy of Love. You feel totally inspired and receptive. The ACE OF CUPS can be compared to the Holy Grail. Just imagine the joy of someone finding the Holy Grail. From you heart, you can only express affection and sympathy, at this point in time. ACE OF WANDS. Here we are leaving the beauty and purity of Water related to your sentiments, and we are becoming Fiery. The Fires of creativity and self expression. The person is self assertive, confident and courageous. This relationship is for him/her an opportunity to take a novel approach, to go in a new direction, to get excited, passionate, and optimistic again. He/she is taking a risk of which he is very capable of. He/she sees this as a very stimulating adventure. He/she has taken some important actions, and he is sure of his forthcoming success. Between you both is : THE JUDGEMENT. Well, it is big decision time, isn't it ? Also, perhaps, an issue revolving around Justice and the Law. The ACE OF WANDS will be the one who can step forward and conquer with no hesitation. The ACE OF CUPS will be the one who is touched, moved, and emotionally captivated and charmed. And the 8 OF WANDS : impatience ! Quick action. Being caught up in a speedy series of events. One of you, or both of you, would like to marry next week, if this was possible at all ! The 8 OF WANDS is a very potent, powerful, and beneficial Card. My favourite Card actually. It means that all the obstacles that now stand in the way of a happy resolution will suddenly vanish. Do not hesitate. The arrival of some announcement and new information will change many things. Both of you will be rushed into a new area of your life. And this will put a smile on your face. Take care.