Mystical Angels

psychics,. why cant she just back off and let me live my life!?

whyant my scorpio mum just let me go and live my life? i thought she wanted me to find someone of my own and now s is giving away that she will marry me off to someone of her choice. she made a statement how girls go for bad boy type, whilst this is true she looked at me in a way like for me to "understand"..wtf? is she trying to say? is she saying how the Sag guy is one too? He is one person who is making me hapy regardless of us not together, as friends we would be alright. I wanna take it slow and find the right person for myself. I told her abt 26 nov 86 but she didnt seem to keen cos he isnt my race (Bangladeshi) he is Polish. I see many girls in my race go for different race men anyway. i hate bangladeshi men, they are unattractive, stupid, dominant, boring lifestyle, and have no common sense. They belittle their wives and children whilst giving others credit. Plus in Islam they dont condone FORCED BLOODY marriage!! when will i move out (yes i am looking) and live my life?> 15 sept 86 london, uk 230pm

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1. There are so many things I can tell you about yet I am unable to because it would take days for me to explain them to you. So I am going to make it as short as possible. You were born into a Bangladeshi family, therefore you must follow their rules and traditions. It has nothing to do with astrology. I have seen many people put in arranged marriages. Some resist, others don't. Those that don't resist, find themselves a better life most of the time. Better as in financially better off and having a stable family because parents often pair their sons/daughters up with people that are hard working, wealthy, and of power. In a parents' mind, the best thing they want for their kids is to have them have a stable family and to be financially capable. They do not want their kids to be divorced or have to live out in the streets. As for love, they believe that if you are with a person long enough, you will begin to love them. Which is true, in many cases, because you will get to know them and realize that they aren't that bad to be with. For those that resist marriage, it all comes down to two things.... Do you choose.... "Family" or "Yourself" You can have one or the other. If you want to go with "Yourself", in many cases, your ties with your family will be cut (I know this, first hand, because I have witnessed Muslim families disowning their daughter for not going into an arranged marriage.). I am not favoring one option over another.... Sure, there is a possibility, that if you cut ties with your family, you may find yourself a happier life but it is a gamble. On the offset chance that you failed to get a happier life, you would lose everything you had before for nothing. It's up to you. I have seen people happy on sides. There is a no correct answer. It all comes down to "do you want to keep what you have now" or "bet everything you have on a two-sided coin".