Mystical Angels

Hind sight is perfect vision,as I look back and realize ,all the times I should have turned left,or right?

In 20/20 clarity I see missed opportunities,bad choices and a lot of wrong turns....in foresight I see the same muddled confusion that will be my future regrets....in seeking clear vision ,wiser decisions,I ask ,how do you see those left and rights before you pass them up? I set goals and yet missed the mark so many times..as motherhood takes the wheel,unexpected bumps and bruises bend the rudder,and yet I look back and see in perfect clarity,it could have been different,..there was a better path...so how do you know before it's too late,do you read the tarot,check your horoscope daily,follow a preacher,well I'm too hard headed for that.. just continue to muddle through?so how does a person turn their hindsight into foresight?In hopes of giving the best life possible to the ones who count on me the most,...I'm asking,is there a secret to it?

Public Comments

1. How do you know it was really the wrong path? Haven't you learned somethings from the experiences you've had? What wisdom or appreciations do you possess now that you wouldn't have if you had taken a different road? Imagine that every choice we make leads us to some experience, some lesson that the Universe has made available to us. Yes, some lessons possess the "taste of bitter" and while others are sweet. Who among us would choose to taste bitter over sweet? But isn't it the bitter lessons that make us appreciate the sweet all the more? Your dilemma is a common one. It's the old "grass is greener on the other side" problem. We all want to escape from and avoid our personal suffering. Unfortunately, suffering is a part of the Path - or rather we make it a part of our Path. However, when you begin to understand the nature of suffering, you can find a means to deal with it. But to directly answer your question.... You don't need to change your foresight. You need to change your overall vision of your life in general including all that is in the past, present and future.
2. WELL YOU ARE RIGHT HIND SIGHT IS VERY ANNOYING SOME DAYS. I THINK AS LONG AS YOU TRY YOUR BEST EACH AND EVERY DAY, AND LEARN FROM THE CHOICES YOU HAVE MADE THAT IS THE ANSWER. "NO MAGIC ABOUT IT." IF YOU SEEN THINGS WITH PERFECT CLARITY ALL THE TIME YOU WOULD NOT SET GOALS YOU WOULD MISS OUT ON EXCITEMENT AND EVEN THE DISAPPOINTMENTS.. AND IN THE END WE LEARN VALUABLE LESSON FROM OUR CHOICES THAT WE MAKE. THE PEOPLE WHO COUNT ON YOU REALIZE YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOU CAN SET A GOOD EXAMPLE ON HOW TO TURN A NEGATIVE DECISION INTO A POSITIVE ONE TRY TO TURN YOUR REGRETS INTO GOALS ,AT LEAST YOU ARE WILLING TO MAKE A DECISION RIGHT OR WRONG SO MANY PEOPLE GO THROUGH LIFE STUCK IN THE SAME PLACE BECAUSE THEY ARE TO SCARED TO MESS UP. DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOUR SELF ONE DAY AT A TIME. AS A MOTHER YOU GIVE YOUR CHILDREN THE BEST BY LOVING THEM AND NEVER GIVING UP